Why Men Need to Flirt
Posted: Wednesday, December 30, 2009
by Richard Brus
Master Seductor
Flirting is an easy activity but it can also contain covert mental and emotional attraction building techniques. Sometimes even professionals can become unstuck when flirting.
Although different experts all claim to have the best method, there will never be a particular flirting style that supersedes all others.
All women are unique and no one technique will guarantee you success. If a guy is having success using a particular technique it doesn't mean that you will share in his success if you emulate the same method. Certain flirting methods may not suit your character.
If she isn't having any fun with you whilst she is flirting, then subconsciously she'll realize that you wouldn't be much fun to be with whilst in a relationship with you. And this is why it's important to flirt with a woman correctly. You won't be able to date any women if you can't flirt with them the right way.
To become adept at flirting requires a commitment to practice it's many facets but many men fail to realize the necessity of this art form. Shame and humiliation are some common emotions that a lot of men are familiar with when it comes to flirting so they avoid it. But practice does make perfect. When even a small degree of perfection is achieved in the art of flirtation a man will consistently have women to choose from.
Most men have memories of failed interactions with women on occasions when they have attempted to flirt. They have naturally developed a fear of the process because their previous attempts have led to rejection and embarrassment.
Men must disengage themselves from the possible results of the flirtatious interaction no matter who the woman might be. When a man can learn to become disconnected from the outcome he is able to let go of the fear of failure. Disconnection from the results of the outcome can become his most powerful weapon.
Thinking clearly and acting freely is the result gained when a man can detach himself from expectations. Throughout any flirtatious interaction his mind can remain sharp and present which enhances his chances of success. It matters not whether he succeeds or fails, and this very factor enhances his opportunity for success. When there is no expectations, there is no failure.
A great method to help you accomplish a state of detachment is to accept that you already have a girlfriend. The clearer the visualization and the stronger the affirmation that you already have a girlfriend, the better this technique will work. Your drop dead gorgeous girlfriend is already waiting at home for you...how do you feel knowing this...you are a very lucky man. But let's just go and flirt with this beautiful woman first before you go home to see her. You're girlfriend loves it when you tell her stories about how you flirt with other girls, so go and do it for her sake.
It doesn't matter what flirting technique you use, they all work best when you're detached from the outcome.
There's specific methods of flirtation for specific situations and there's a lot of great techniques out there.
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Top-level comments on this article: (1 total)I'm not sure what girlfriends you are talking about here. But, I don't think I've ever had one who would "love to hear my flirtation stories". You do bring up a good point though about being detached from the outcome. An interesting read, though I may not agree with much of it.
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