What Are A Woman's Eyes Saying To You ?
Posted: Saturday, February 13, 2010
by Richard Brus
Master Seductor
To help ensure you establish the correct kind of connection with the women you desire you must integrate physical flirtation into your interactions with women. This ensures that the connection you are creating is founded and based in sexual tension rather then friendship.
Lots of men are competent in creating an emotional connection via flirting, but a purely physical connection must also be established via non casual touching and eye contact. By using our eye's we can integrate physical flirtation into our communications with women.
Women need to know that you find them attractive. To establish a physical connection with a woman using your eyes you must be able to look at her body the correct way. Ironically, if you don't look at a woman's body she will think that something is wrong and feel unattractive. The problem is that most men don't know how to look at a woman's body correctly.
Most men find themselves looking away from a woman and purposely avoiding eye contact after they've looked at a woman's body. This denotes and sublimely conveys shame, fear and embarrassment, all of which are very unattractive traits from a woman's viewpoint.
You'll naturally find yourself wanting to look at a woman's body anyway. When you do, just allow your eyes to gaze over her body, but limit this gaze to a period of two and a half seconds. The trick is that when you've finished gazing at her body you must return your gaze directly into her eyes again.
This lets her know that you're not ashamed to look at her body and you're comfortable and confident enough to express your desires with her. After you've re-established eye contact with her for a period of at least three seconds then it's fine to break eye contact. By following that simple pattern it allows you to look at a woman's body in a way which feels natural and appropriate for her too.
It's also important how you break eye contact with women. Whenever you break eye contact with a woman you desire, never do so by looking downwards. When you break eye contact by looking downwards it coveys fear and shame which are both very unattractive traits from a woman's viewpoint. Break eye contact by looking sideways or slightly upwards. This will ensure that the dynamics of your eye movements convey a positive and confident demeanour.
When a woman initiates eye contact with you in a social situation it's her way of expressing her desire for you. When this happens be sure that you're not the one who breaks the eye contact first. To do so is to subliminally convey to the woman that you are not man enough to maintain eye contact with her because you fear what she might think of you. It tells her that she is the dominate one because you don't have the courage to maintain eye contact with her. It signifies that you're not capable of flirting with her in this manner because your afraid of what might happen.
Some women do this to men as a test to see if they are capable of handling them as a potential lover. Most men don't understand this dynamic and therefore usually break eye contact with the women who desire them. When a woman does this it's her way of saying, "...I'd love to become intimate with you if you can actually handle me and cause me to actually feel like a woman by showing me you're man enough and creative enough to make something happen from this..."
If you're engaged in eye contact with a woman for an extended period you can wink at her slowly at around the six second mark to heat things up. Be sure to maintain eye contact with her until she breaks it. If she responds by winking back at you it's her way of saying, "Hurry up and get over here and ask me for my number."
Women do not initiate extended periods of eye contact with you if they are not interested in getting to know you. A woman is inviting you to talk to her whenever she initiates eye contact with you for more than three seconds. Now you know exactly what her eyes are saying to you. You also know what your eye movements are saying back to her...so choose your words carefully.
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